๐ช๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฟ๐ผ๐? ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐!
More than 30 years ago I lived in Japan and was struck by how genuinely friendly and considerate people were.
3 years ago, when I visited Denmark for the first time, I felt the same.
What do you think these two countries have in common?
๐ ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐ ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ต ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ด๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐๐๐๐๐ฒ๐บ๐.
In Denmark, every child has a weekly empathy session. Itโs not โextra.โ Itโs as fundamental as math or science. Kindness is treated as a skill, something you can develop and practice.
The results are remarkable:
โ Children collaborate more and see each other as allies instead of threats.
โ Only 6.3% of Danish students experience regular bullyingโone of the lowest rates in Europe.
โ Long-term studies show kids who learn empathy early are more likely to graduate, find meaningful work, and build strong relationships.
๐ก๐ฒ๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐บ๐ ๐ถ๐: ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ ๐น๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป.
It strengthens perspective-taking, emotional regulation, and connection.
So what if our schools and workplaces treated empathy as seriously as math?
How would that change our leaders of tomorrow?
This is a shout-out to parents, teachers and leaders to self-reflect and ask yourself: how much time do you invest in Emotional Intelligence?
EQ is not soft. (Please, letโs stop calling it โsoft skills.โ)
EQ are ๐๐ค๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ก๐ก๐จ kids, parents and leaders need to cultivate happy and healthy schools, workplaces and communities.
๐ WannaGrow ๐๐๐จ๐๐๐ฃs ๐ก๐๐๐๐๐ง๐จ๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ฎ๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ข๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ฉ๐๐ฎ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ข๐ค๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐๐ก ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ก๐ก๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ฉ ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐๐ก๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐ง๐๐๐ฉ๐๐๐. ๐๐๐๐จ ๐จ๐ช๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ค๐ง๐ฉ๐จ ๐ค๐ง๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ฏ๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐จ ๐ง๐๐๐จ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐๐ง๐จ ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฉ๐ง๐ช๐ก๐ฎ ๐ฃ๐๐๐.
โจ Happy First School Day!
